Sir June Gay Bar

Last Saturday, I was in an adventurous mood that I took the time to visit a gay bar in the heart of Pasig called Sir June.

I have heard that there was a gay bar along Ortigas Extension but never got around to find and visit it. It lies along Ortigas Extension and one can say it is discreetly located that you cannot distinguish it from the videoke bars in the area. The night I went to this establishment they had a special show called "Hamog sa Tag-Init" (which roughly translates to Dew of Summer) so I was revved up with the promise of a special show.



I got there at 10:30pm. Well, it did say on the banner outside that the show will start at 10pm so I was fashionably late. Guess what? It did not. As it turns out, there was only one other group who got there before and the show has not yet started. I was thinking it was a slow night or this was how it was in this bar. The show did start at 11pm with 12 guys wearing black undershirt and maong shorts in their bare feet gyrating on the stage one after the other in sleezy music. After 12midnight, when most gay bars start to have their dancers start stripping off all their clothes, I was expecting the expected. Their second set costume consisted of their underwear and boots. Their special show for the night was a sort-of competition between 3 of their younger models.

All in all, the place was clean enough with the comfort room, though a bit rustic, was properly maintained. The air conditioner was not enough to fully ventilate the bar that they need ceiling fans to assist in cooling their patrons. Prices are reasonable considering it was a Saturday and they supposedly have a special show. There was no actual menu but they do offer some finger food, just inquire with the waiters. The bar tolerates smokers and provides an ash tray upon settling down in your table. Their floor manager was accomodating, much as their dancers who strike a conversation towards enticing you to purchase a macho drink. My expectations were quite high since I have been to other gay bars and expected an exciting show. Of the limited number of macho dancers that they featured, only two were good looking. From the two, only one stood out because he had equally sexy body and was more than happy to display it. It was a let down that when they were gyrating on the stage some were wearing underwear that were loose. Usually, macho dancers will wear the skimpiest outfits, if not, nothing at all to thrill their audience. In this case, they were neither flattering to the dancer nor enticing to those who were watching them. I guess because of my expectations of gay bars, I had a heightened expectation of a lot of flesh exposures. I left by 3am and at that time only 2 of their macho dancers had shown their wares.



It was not such a bad field trip. Maybe I'll drop by again one of these days.






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Theater Cruising

Have you visited a moviehouse not to check out the movie being shown but to pick up or be picked up? Have you had encounters in a dingy cinema which features movies out of current circulation?

I would admit, my very first encounter has been in a moviehouse in Quiapo. I was a late bloomer. I was strictly guarded by my parents and I would just be travelling from the house to the school and vice versa. It would not be until I got to college that I got to explore. I have heard of the old moviehouses in Quiapo and after a long period of mere curiousity, I got to experience it myself.

Back then, there were a lot of these moviehouses near Quiapo Church that show "bomba" films. Two were along Quezon Avenue at the same side as the church while another two were on the other side of the street. Three were nearer Isetan, along Recto while there were another two along Rizal Avenue. Many of these have already been closed or demolished but back then in the 80's, you can take your pick.

For the uninitiated, what would expect if you do take the excursion. Guys will normally be in the foyer area or near the comfort rooms. When you enter the cinema proper, it would normally be very dark, with hardly any track lighting so you really have to grope your way when finding a seat. The best seats for me is near the electric fans. The place can get hot and unless you have a spare shirt with you, you can get drenched with sweat.

If encounters in movie houses is not your peice of cake, various motels are located nearby but there is not assurance that they are any less dingy than the moviehouse you came from. Back when I was young and naive, I let others lead the way and take me where they wanted me to be but now older, and maybe wiser, I would rather be in a comfortable place. I have heard some modus operani that people get cornered by their hook ups because the owner of the motel conspire with the conmen.

It is a gamble when meeting people in these kind of places so always be careful. You don't have anything to hold against them - no picture, no identification. It might be safer to chat and start with a date then progress from there. However, if anonymity and the possibility of danger is what brings you thrill, then these encounters will probably give you a boost.

Though there are still moviehouses like those, even in Cubao, many have opted to cruise in more upscale cinemas like SM North Edsa or Megamall where staying in the backrow now would probably yield a hook up.

If you plan for an adventure, take care of your belongings. If possible, don't bring a watch or a cellphone. Don't bring a large amount of money and always be mindful where you drop your clothes because the floors can get sticky. Be happy but safe guys.





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John Matthews Salon

It was another Saturday. I wanted to get a massage especially since I have been so stressed at work and all. And I was not in any mood for a so-so massage. I have tried other spas, both legitimate and those that have masseurs that offer extra. One that I have been coming back to is the John Matthews Salon located near the corner of New York Street and E. Rodriguez in Cubao.



It is accessible from Cubao and lies within what I term as the Cubao gay men's triangle of sin (which I will discuss on a later post). John Matthews Salon, as the name implies, is basically a salon. Get your hair done, get a manicure or pedicure, puff up your face with make up kind of salon. A few such salons have integrated spa services to allow consumers a sort of one-stop shop for beauty services but they usually have it as a secondary service. Most spas focus on their services and rarely diversify to other offerings. It is rare that one could find a place that would focus on both services (salon and spa) and be good at both.


I am not one to put much airs in fixing myself up. I don't have lotions or creams. I rarely put anything on my hair to sculpt it. I usually trim my own nails. Mind you. I do get facials once in a while, but that's it. Getting a massage, now that's something else all together. I have tried out a lot of different places and have rarely found satisfaction with their services. Most legitimate massage places have small women stretching you, kneading your skin, trying to provide the right pressure but to no avail. Massage parlors, whether it is one where you select a masseur or masseuse from behind a (supposedly) one-way mirror, seldom are venues to experience a relaxing massage as these are venues that facilitate "extra services." In other words, it is not often to find one that satisfy your needs. Sorry, I am looking for one that offers hard massage, bordering on deep tissue massages so a light hand is not what I would look for in a therapist.


That is where the John Matthews Salon comes in. They do have female therapists but their male therapists are worth coming back for. There have been times where I have been lulled to sleep by their massages.


When I do have the time, which was last Saturday for me, I go out of my way and visit them. There have been times that they could not accommodate me because their masseurs are already booked for the night so calling in for a reservation or coming on afternoons would be better. They also have a combination of spa services that may provide for a more relaxing, satisfying time. These offerings include detoxifying, foot spas, hair and scalp treatments, facial masks and body scrubs.

The offering I availed was one that had a body scrub, a hair and scalp treatment and, of course, a body massage. It was worth it. Time-wise, it was two and a half hours well spent on pampering yourself. In terms of cost, I felt it wasn't a waste. For others who would like to try it, there are other treatment combinations that you could avail, depending on what you need.

I got there around 9:30pm. Their spa services are available until 1pm. There was only one available cubicle left when got in. And luckily enough as well, my usual masseur was the only one available. If he was not available, I was comfortable with trying out the others. I then proceeded to the locker area where I was to get my towel, slippers and shorts/robe, leaving my valuables, clothes and shoes inside the locker. I had a shower. The therapist led me towards a chair where he applied some concoction on my hair and scalp. He fastened some sort of towelette to make sure it does not drip and covered it up by a shower cap. We walked to our assigned cubicle to begin the body scrub. Similar to the massage, he start from the back of my legs then up to my back before scrubbing the back of my arms. Turning me over, he kept scrubbing up my legs to the groin area before the chest and arms. Covering me up and resting for around 10 minutes, I was then asked to return to the shower and make sure that I had removed all of the coarse material that helped rid of my body's dead skin cells. After I am all dried up, the masseur led me back to the massage table and with his magical hands explored my entire body. Using a firm hand and a strong pressure, he made an effort to sooth my swollen muscles. After doing some stretching, I was allowed to rest awhile. It was time for me to go.

I felt both relaxed and invigorated as I left their premises. It also seemed i was so clean and smooth because of the body scrub. That was time well spent. Quality time for myself. Quality pampering from John Matthews Salon.




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Before the Internet: Ayala Triangle

I’m always interested to hear how things were like for the hidden PLU community before the advent of widespread Internet. For sure, finding like-minded guys was a helluva lot harder then than it is in this day and age. Now we have plenty of online venues such as social networking sites, Internet relay chat (or IRC), and even blogs like Discreet Manila to provide us with tons of connections and information. Well, I’ve seen a documentary last year which showed how the gay community was in the United States in the 1970s, but I also want to see how things went here in the Philippines.

Before the Internet, I imagine that discreet cruising skills like the look or even silly ones like the leaving-your-card trick are one’s best assets for meeting other guys. From there, you get to build your set of gay PLU friends and you are then able to obtain news, and information on cruising spots and gay-friendly places from your network.




Anyway, thanks to this really enlightening (and old) blog post by the Corporate Closet, I had learned that one (surprising!) cruising spot back in the 1980s was Ayala Triangle in Makati. Who knew? Back then it was called Ugarte Field and that’s where you could meet upscale yuppies for quick sex or even just companionship. I guess it’s inevitable that gay guys would flock to dark parks in the same we gravitate to comfort rooms.

So, for the older guys out there, got any nostalgic stories to share, like CC?





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Dreamboy Gay Bar

Another Saturday, another adventure. This time around my curiousity brought me to the Dreamboys Gay Bar located near the Betty Go Belmonte station. With its proximity to Cubao and being along Aurora Boulevard, it was quite easy to locate.


Why did I decide to visit this particular gay bar? I got an email through one of the yahoogroups I am subscribed to that they have a big night. It will be the Grand Finals of the Search for Mr. Dreamboy 2009. I almost did not go as I met some friends and it was difficult to get away from them and explain where I was headed. Luckily, I was able to escape and be at the bar by 12 midnight. As I mentioned on my blog about the Sir June Gay Bar, midnight is when their dancers start losing all their clothing. And in this case, I was expecting that the competition would be starting at that time.

Similar to my experience two weeks ago, I was early again. At least, this time around there were a number of patrons already in the venue. More than half the number of tables were occupied. It seems it was a big night indeed. The competition did not start yet but dancers were gyrating on the stage in trunks and they were either titillating the audience with the promise that a big one is lying erect under the thin cloth they are wearing or they leave nothing to the imagination. One after the another they strutted and teased up until half past 1 when the contest proper was on the way.

While waiting for the Search for Mr. Dreamboy 2009 to begin, I was approached by their floor manager to be a judge. Of course I accepted. I felt so priviledged to be asked but as I was not really on the out and out, I did not really provide my full name. There I was not only ready to enjoy the spectacle of seeing the gay bar's best of the best but also all set to objectively judge the candidates based on what the floor manager explained to me.

Once the pseudo-contest was on the way, my eye feasted on the eye candy parading in front of me. I half-expected to see more seasoned performers here especially since that was the impression from what I heard about this bar. Pleasantly surprised. As it turns out for 2009, they have rolled out invitations to newer macho dancers. They had their new wards compete for this year's Search for Mr. Dreamboy. They had an interesting array of participants - some on the muscular side, some almost twinky, a few a little chubby, some moreno, some fair - but all well-endowed and sexy. They were more than willing to up the ante as they tried to out-perform each other.

They started out with what they called as the national costume portion but I would hardly call these national costumes. The talent portion followed. That took quite some time since the dancers really made an effort in their performances. They had more costumes and back up dancers. I enjoyed each individual's efforts. Unlike my last gay bar trip,definitely all the macho dancers knew how to dance and none of them were stiff nor were they just going through their paces. All well-endowed, all flexible, all graceful. Since the talent portion took almost two hours, they rushed through the casual wear, swim wear and sports wear.

Around that time I realized that the competion was rigged. Because it tookso long, a few of the judges already left. We were also asked to contribute some money. From one of the dancers I got to talk to (and these were the ones not involved in the competition), the amout one contributes influences who wins. It discouraged me a bit but I just continued rating the dancers based on the criteria they supposedly set. They still did the interview portion but one would notice that the people they want to win were asked additional questions unlike the other dancers. Anyway, I did stay to the end - I believe I was the only judge left in the bar and just a few tables were still occupied. And as expected, (It was revealed by the dancers I was able to talk to during the night) the one they said was going to win did win.
All in all, a different experience. I enjoyed it though and if I was going back to the same gay bar, this would be it. They had a higher entrance fee but it was worth it especially with their big night. The place was well ventilated, even if the place got full. The guys were more than your average joes. They were not just picked up from the streets. They knew how to dance and they gave their all when they were on the stage. For me it was time and money well spent.

With this particlar bar, when they say it is a big night, they do deliver. Hoping when they do hold a different kind of big night, I am able to visit them.

How was your Saturday?





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13 Different Types of Bisexuality

According to J.R. Little, bisexuals can be categorized in terms of their sexual desires and experiences and include:

Alternating Bisexuals – one relationship at a time, the first might be exclusively straight, the next exclusively gay and vice versa. Alternating Bisexuals are usually monogamous.

Circumstantial Bisexuals – primarily heterosexual but bisexual because of circumstances, eg; Prison where there are no women/men available.

Concurrent relationship Bisexuals – have a primary relationship with one gender, but may have multiple casual relationships with partners of the other gender.

Conditional Bisexuals – will switch sexuality for personal gain, eg: Gay for Pay.

Emotional Bisexuals – have intimate emotional relationships with both genders but only have sex with one gender.

Integrated Bisexuals – have two or more concurrent primary relationships one with a man one with a woman.

Exploratory Bisexuals – testing the water seeing if they like it.

Hedonistic Bisexuals -primarily straight or gay/lesbian but will switch purely for sexual pleasure.

Recreational Bisexuals – bi only when drunk or high. “Party Bisexual”.

Isolated Bisexuals – currently straight or gay/lesbian – but has had one off sexual encounter in the past which qualifies them as bisexual.

Latent Bisexuals – has strong yet so far unsatisfied urges to go the other way.

Motivational Bisexuals – will go bi to satisfy a partner, e.g. straight women agreeing to an MFF threesome.

Transitional Bisexuals – the only type of bisexuality the gay community understands, the one “going through a phase”.

So, which type are you?

Paano Maiiwasan at Malulunasan ang Tulo o Gonorrhea?

Ang sexually-transmitted diseases (STDs) ay mga sakit na maaaring mahawa sa anumang uri ng pakikipagtalik o sexual contact. Isang halimbawa ng STD ay ang Tulo/gonorrhea. Ang tulo, na may siyentipikong taguri na gonorrhea, ay isang uri ng sakit na makukuha makaraang makipagtalik sa tao na may impeksiyon nito. Malimit itong tawaging “tulo” dahil sa nanang lumalabas sa titi o puke ng maysakit.

Ang sanhi ng 'tulo' ay ang bacteria na Neisseria gonorrhoeae, kaya ito ay tinatawag na sakit na "Gonorrhea". Gaya nang nabanggit, ito ay maaaring mahawa sa pamamagitan ng anumang uri na pakikipagtalik. Dahil ito'y maaaring walang sintomas o senyales, posibleng makipagtalik nang hindi nalalaman na may tulo o gonorrhea pala ang katalik.
Ito ang mga sintomas ng tulo sa lalaki:

1. Pagdanas ng kirot o hapdi sa bayag o titi tuwing iihi
2. Pagnanana ng titi
3. Makirot na pag-ihi (minsan hindi na talaga makaihi)
4. Lagnat (sa ibang kaso lamang)

Makalipas ang ilang buwan o taon, maaaring makaranas ng pamamaga ng tuhod o kasukasuan ang maysakit, bukod pa ang iba pang karamdaman.

Ang nakakatakot sa tulo o gonorrhea ay ang mga complication; maaaring ipanganak na bulag o may problema sa mata ang isang sanggol kung nagkaroon ng tulo ay kanyang nanay habang siya ay pinagbubuntis. Maaari ring magdulot ng isang malalang impeksyon (pelvic inflammatory disease) sa mga babae. Sa lalake naman, maaaring ma-impeksyon ang prostate o ang epididymis na bahagi ng dinadaanan ng semilya. Sa ibang tao, nagiging sanhi ito ng PAGKABAOG.

Dahil nakakahiyang pag-usapan, maraming mga STDs na inililihim at hindi ikinokonsulta. Ang nangyayari ay paggagamot sa sarili o self-medication. Ngunit hindi ito magandang gawin. Una sa lahat, tama nga ba ang iyong haka-haka kung ano nga ba talaga ang iyong karamdaman? Paano kung magkamali ka? Huwag mahiyang lumapit sa doktor sapagkat ang mga doktor ay may prinipsyo ng "confidentiality" na nagsasabing hindi kailanman maaring ipagkalat ng doktor ang anumang sasabihin mo sa kanya.

Ano ang gamot sa tulo o gonorrhea? Antibiotiko o antibiotics ang solusyon. Kinakailangang ipatingin sa doktor kung anong uri ng antibiotiko at gaanong kadami at gaanong kadalas (dose and frequency) ng gamutan. Kung mayroon kang tulo o gonorrhea, malamang ay mayroon ring tulo ay iyong asawa o sexual partner kaya dapat siya ay ipatingin at gamutin rin.

Mas mabuting kumunsulta sa inyong doktor upang masuri kung anong tamang gamot ang maaaring gamitin at ligtas para sa inyo. Ang iyong sakit ay hinde isang karaniwang sipon o ubo lamang. Nangangailangan ito ng espesyalista sapagkat kailangan mo ng antibayotiko. Subalit ang tulo ay maraming dahilan
kaya dapat ay ang tamang gamot ang iyong inumin dahil dapat ay LUBOS kang gumaling dahil ito ay maaaring magpabalik balikat makakahawa ka ng iyong kapartner. Komunsulta agad sa doktor. Minsan kapag hindi na nakuha o tumatalab ang iniinom mong antibiotic maari kang turukan ng mas mabisang gamot (intramascular) sa bandang pige o puwitan. Masakit yun at mahal, sige ka.

Paano nga pala maiiwasan ang tulo o gonorrhea? Ang pinaka-mabuti parin ay ang pagiging matapat sa asawa, o kaya pag-iwas sa pakikipagtalik sa kung sinu-sino. Ang paggamit ng condom (safe sex) ay makakaiwas rin sa tulo o gonorrhea, ngunit hindi ito 100% na sigurado sapagkat maaari ring makuha ay gonorrhea sa pakikipaghalikan o kaya oral sex. Maaaring maipadala ang gonorea sa pamamagitan ng pagdaan sa mga mata.

Tandaan, nasa huli lagi ang pagsisisi. Kaya bago tsumupa o magpatira siguraduhing hindi ka mahahawa o makakahawa. Maging responsable tayong nilalang. At higit sa lahat maging "faithful".

Straight Men Have Sex with Men Still Be Straight?

There is a lot of talk about Bromances these days. The urban dictionary definition of a bromance is described as "complicated love and affection shared by two straight males." But what if the two men decide to have sex? Does that make them gay or bisexual?

When girls do this in Girls Gone Wild they are not accused of being latent lesbians or bisexuals. Their sexual orientation is not speculated about at all as it turns out. But this is different for me.

Understanding Straight Men Who Have Sex with Men

There's growing evidence that many men who have sex with men aren't all gay or bisexual. According to the Centers for Disease Control, more than 3 million men who self-identify as straight secretly have sex with other men-putting their wives or girlfriends at risk for HIV infection and other sexually transmitted diseases.

A recent New York City survey that appeared in the September 19, 2006, issue of the Annals of Internal Medicine found that nearly 1 in 10 men say they're straight and have occasional sex with men. In addition, 70 percent of these men are heterosexually married. In fact, 10 percent of all married men in this survey reported engaging in same-sex behavior during the previous year.

To best understand these men, therapists and clients need to be able to differentiate four terms that are often confused: sexual identity and orientation; sexual preferences; sexual fantasies; and sexual behavior. Contrary to common usage, they aren't always in alignment.

Sexual identity and orientation encompasses one's sexual and romantic identity, in which thoughts, fantasies, and behaviors work together in concert. It's the alignment of affectional, romantic, psychological, spiritual, and sexual feelings and desires for those of the same or opposite gender. Sexual orientation doesn't change over time. One's sexual behaviors and preferences might change, but like one's temperament, one's orientation remains mostly stable. The term also refers to how someone self-identifies, not how others may categorize him or her. Some people self-identify as straight, while others self-identify as gay or lesbian, bisexual, or questioning. It's important as therapists to ask your clients how they self-identify, regardless of with whom they have sex.

Sexual preferences refer to sexual acts, positions, and erotic scenarios that someone prefers to have while engaging in sexual activity. The term takes into account what individuals like to do and get into sexually, not necessarily with whom they like to do it. Preferences and erotic interests can change over time, as one becomes more open or closed to certain thoughts and behaviors.

Sexual fantasies are any thoughts that one finds arousing. They can encompass anything-sexual positions, romantic encounters, body parts, clothing and shoe fetishes, even rape. Sexual fantasies aren't necessarily acted out. In fact, in many cases, they aren't.

Sexual behavior is any behavior intended to pleasure oneself and/or one's sexual partner. It doesn't necessarily reflect one's orientation. For example, men who are imprisoned engage in sexual behaviors with other men, but do so out of sexual necessity, not because of erotic interest in another man. They desire the behavior and the sexual release it achieves, and the gender of the partner is secondary.

For straight men who have sex with men, same-sex encounters aren't about romance or sexual attraction and desire, but about sexual and physiological arousal-"getting off" with another who's male and accessible. They don't sexually desire or get aroused by looking at other men, only by the sexual act. But if they don't actively desire other men, how do they get to the point of having sex with them? These men typically want to bond with and get affection from other men. Their behavior may reflect a desire to experiment, to engage in something that's taboo, or to express inner psychological conflicts involving their sexual feelings and desires that have nothing to do with having a gay or bisexual identity.

Straight men who have sex with men do so for a variety of reasons. Some have been sexually abused and are compulsively reenacting childhood sexual trauma by male perpetrators; some find sexual release with another man more accessible; some have sex with men because it's easier and requires fewer social skills than those required to have sex with women; some are "gay for pay" and get financial rewards; some like the attention they receive from other men; some like anal sex, which they're otherwise too ashamed to talk about or engage in with their female partners.

When I learn that a straight client is having sex with men, I ask a series of questions: What is your interest in men? Do you prefer one type over another? Do you feel drawn and compelled to satisfy your sexual urges with men? Do you care about the physical appearance of the man? Do women play any role in the fantasy? Is it different for you if they aren't? I also try to listen for the themes running through their sexual interests and fantasies, which often decode aspects of their personal identity and histories.

Imahinasyon at ang REMAR Cinema

Matagal ko nang gustong masubukang makapanood ng gay-themed indie film sa sinehan pero di ko talaga magawa. Pero on my way home kagabi, I saw na showing pala sa REMAR cinema sa Cubao yung Indie film na "Imahinasyon". Sobra ang kaba ko habang tumatawid ng kalsada. Hindi na rin kasi ako baguhan sa mga ganitong uri ng sinehan at alam ko ang mga "kababalaghang" nangyayari sa loob.

Naaalala ko pa ang unang beses kong panonood sa ganitong uri ng sinehan. Sa isang sinehan sa Quiapo na katabi pa mismo ng simbahan. Nasa 3rdyear college ako noon at kasama ko si Paul, ang unang boyfriend ko. Since that time eh may kasama ako kaya siguro walang nangahas na lumapit. Siyempre kami ni Paul yung nagkapaan hehe. Pero di na namin tinapos ang pelikula nang mapansin naming halos lahat ng tao ay wala sa pelikula nakatuon ang pansin kundi sa paghahanap ng laman.

Kapansin-pansing napaglipasan na ng panahon ang REMAR cinema. Tinanong ko ang matandang babae sa ticket booth kung magkano ang isang ticket, pero yung guard na ang sumagot sa tanong ko. "P110.00", ang wika ng guard. Pagkaabot ng ticket ay agad akong pumasok sa loob. Agad kong napansin ang kakaibang amoy sa loob, amoy luma at mabaho na hindi ko mawari kung bakit. Pagkabukas ko ng pintuan ay agad na nagsilingunan ang mga tao sa loob, marahil ay sinisipat kung "yummy" ako. Agad akong umupo sa pinakadulo ng upuan habang halos lumukso sa kaba ang aking dibdib. Agad na umagaw ng pansin sa akin ang isang chubby na lalaki sa kabilang dulo na abalang-abala sa pagjajakol ng kanyang sandata habang pinapanood ng iba. Napansin ko rin na halos lahat ng tao sa loob ay matatandang lalaki, at waring di sila mapakali sa paglalakad sa loob ng sinehan. Agad kong kinundisyon ang aking utak na tanging panonood lamang ng pelikula ang aking pakay, at hindi ako papayag na matikman ng mga gurang na ito.

Nang magdilim ang buong sinehan ay nagsimula na ang palabas. Pinigilan ko ang aking sarili na matawa dahil hindi ko nagustuhan ang pelikula. Ang babaw ng plot, saka walang lalim sa pag-arte ang mga tampok na artista.Pero aaminin ko na cute yung bidang lalaki (yung napapagitnaan ng dalawang lalaki)

Uminog ang kwento sa paghahanap ng kasagutan ni Jeram sa katauhan ng diwatang laging laman ng kanyang mga panaginip, si Diana. Kasama ang kanyang kaibigan, binagtas nila ang masukal na kagubatan hanggang sa mapadpad sila sa bahay ng bagong kasal na magsing-irog. Si Ana, ang babae sa bahay na kanilang tinuluyan ay malaki ang pagkakahawig sa babae sa panaginip ni Jeram. Nang minsang mapag-isa sa bahay sina Jeram at Ana ay naganap ang isang mainit na pagtatalik. Batid nina Ana at Jeram na mali ang kanilang ginawa, kaya naman kinabukasan ay agad nang nagpaalam ang magkaibigan na upang bumalik na ng Maynila.

Dahil sa pagod ay napagpasyahan ng magkaibigan na matulog sa damuhan. Muli ay dinalaw si Jeram ni Diana sa kanyang panaginip. Lingid sa kaalaman ni Jeram ay may lihim na pagtingin sa kanya ang kanyang kaibigang lalaki. Dito na pumasok ang M2M sex sa pagitan ng magkaibigan. Pagkatapos nilang mailabas ang init ng kanilang katawan ay nagtapat rin si Jeram na may pagtingin rin sya sa kaibigan. (Promise tawa ako nang tawa sa part na to! Haha)

Sa kanilang pagbagtas sa masukal na gubat ay naligaw ang magkaibigan. Hanggang sa may nakasalubong silang matandang lalaki na nagsabing maligno ang mag-asawang kanilang nakasama sa loob ng ilang araw.
Nang matapos ang pelikula ay agad na akong tumayo, kahit na ang susunod na palabas ay Avengers. Di ko kasi trip magahasa dito noh! Pagkalabas ko sa pinto ay ramdam na ramdam ko ang mga titig ng mga matatandang becky na nag-aasam na makatikim ng sariwang karne.Mabilis ang aking mga hakbang hanggang sa nakarating ako ng LRT station.

Hindi na ako babalik sa sinehan na yun! Once is enough hihi.

Techniques Sa Mas Masarap na Paglalaro

Talaga namang maraming nagtatanong sa akin kung paano ba mas mapapasarap ang pagjajakol. Kung hindi ako nagkakamali nagbigay na ako ng mga tips upang mas maging nakakalibog at kaaya-aya ang pagpaparaos o pagpapaligaya sa sarili. Maari niyong bisitahin ang previous post nating pinamagatang: "Tips Para Sa Masarap Na Pagjajakol". Gayunpaman, dahil si Boy Libog ang Hari ng Kalibugan, meron parin akong maibabahaging tips:

1. Dapat meron kang privacy. Kasi wala nang mas sasarap pa sa pagjajakol kung hindi ka nagaalala na mahuli ka. Huwag kang matakot para hindi awkward para sa'yo.

2. Relax lang parekoy. Huwag kang magmamadalipara magenjoy ka sa pagpaparaos.

3. Kailangan merong pampadulas. Mas nagiging kakaiba ang pagjajakol kapag may KY Jelly.

4. Kailangan mo ng visual stimulation. Pwedeng porn video, magazine, or pag-imagine sa isang tao/sexual fantasy mo na kinalilibugan mo ng sobra.

5. Dapat magaling kang humawak kay manoy. Magiging mas pleasurable ang pagbabate kapag may iba't-ibang alam kang paraan ng paghawak. Dapat din binabago-bago mo ang pagbaba at pagtaas. Tipong bibilis tapos biglang babagal. Meron akong natuklasang website na nagbibigay ng tips sa paraan ng paghawak sa titi: 

May mga techniques akong ibabahagi sa inyo:

1. Malamig na Yelo. Sa unang mga diskarte sa masturbation, magsalsal tulad ng karaniwan mong nakagawian, ngunit kapag sa tingin mo malapit ka nang lumabas ang tamod, humawak ng mga yelo cubes o durog na yelo sa kabilang kamay, pagkatapos ay magpatuloy sa pagjajakol. Ang pakiramdam ng malamig na sa isa sa kamay, init sa isa, at ang sensasyon ng lalabasan ay magbibigay sa'yo ng kakaibang karanasan.

2. Singsing sa paligid ni manoy. Lagyan ang iyong parehong mga kamay ng pampadulas, at bumuo ng isang singsing sa iyong hinlalaki at hintuturo. Ilagay ito sa paligid ng base ng iyong burat. i-Slide ang ring hanggang sa base ng ulo ng pag-aari (kung saan sa ulo magsisimula). Ngayon bumuo ng isang singsing sa mga daliri sa isa pang mga kamay at gawin ang parehong procedure. Panatilihin ang stroking sa isang singsing one at a time hanggang sa ikaw ay labasan.

3. Paghawak sa bayag. Kung pakiramdam mo ay lalaabsan ka na, ilagay ang iyong isang kamay sa iyong bayag at pisilin at hatakin ito pababa (o mas agresibo, kung gusto mo). Sa ganoong paraan, mararamdaman mo ang iyong tamod na naglalakbay sa pamamagitan ng iyong katawan, naghahanap ng paraan upang makalabas.

4. Daliriin. Panatilihing suot ang iyong brief o underwear at hayang tumigas ng kusa ang burat. Kapag ikaw ay nasa sagad na katigasan, i-tap ang dulo ng iyong titi/butas ng mga dulo ng iyong mga daliri. Kiskisin ito. Dapat tumagal medyo mas mahaba kaysa sa karaniwan para sa iyo upang maabot ang rurok.

5. Habang nakatayo, itabingi ang iyong kamay na may pampadulas nang sa gayon ay ang iyong hinlalaki ay nakasalungat sa iyong pusod. Ibalot ang iyong kamay sa paligid ng iyong titi at sa halip jakulin gamit ang iyong kamay, kumadyot o kantutin ang kamay pataas-baba.

Sana nakatulong ulit ang mga tips ko sa inyo parekoi... Hanggang sa muli at masarap na pagjajakol.

Konting Haplos Lang

Sa mga kalalakihang may edad 15 to 19, ito yong mga batang mabilis labasan pag nagjakol, konting haplos lang ay labas na agad ang tamod. Ang mga tamod nito ay malasa at matamis pa. Actually kapag nasa mga ganyang edad eh kung ano ano na mga naiisip at nag-eexperiment talaga. Oh ito, sasabihin ko yung totoo hah, nung nagstart ako maadik sa jakol when I was 14, jusko ang CR namin noon lumang style pa, yung bowl na nasa lapag lang, flat xa,
ipapatong mo lang yung dalawang paa mo tapos shoot mo yung butter mo dun sa butas ng bowl at easy lang mag flash hah, walang hassle, Lols!

Syempre pa dahil ganun ang itsura ng CR, nakaupo ka lang talaga, di ko alam sa tagalog term yung ganun, basta hindi nmn sya upo, nakapatong lang ung paa sa bowl na attached sa sahig. At dahil nga na ganun at dahil rin sa maliit pa si junior sa mga edad ko na yun, ang style ng pagjajakol ay hindi buong kamay kundi ang pag-close ng mga darili mo at ikulong si junior nito sabay ariba ng ariba hanggang sa lumabas. Ewan ko if naintindihan nyo.

Anyway, kung teenager kayo syempre tinangka nyo na ring tikman ang tamod nyo diba? Wag maging sinungaling dahil totoo yun! Kung hindi mo ginawa yun, malamang isa kang dyosa or isa kang abnormal! Hahahaha! May time pa nga na isasandal mo pwet or ipatong ang paa sa dingding tapos parang babaluktok ka habang nagjajakol para masalo mo yung tamod deretso sa bibig mo. Oh sa mga hindi natry yun, subukan nyo kaya. Speaking of "tamod", ano nga pala ang lasa nito? Masasagot nyo yan mismo pag kayo na nakatikim ng tamod nyo. Sabi nila, at agree naman ako, magkahalong alat at tamis ang lasa ng tamod. Pagkumpara mo nalang sya sa lasa ng talaba. Hahahaha!

Eto pa natry nyo na rin ba magjakol habang nagfifinger? May kakaibang sensasyun din yun mga MSRians! Sarap kaya kapag may isang solid material na papasok sa pwet mo habang nagjajakol, sure yan talsik at plek plek sa dingding ang tamod. Ako nung teenage ko, nagjajakol ako sa dagat, lols! Kahit lumalangoy ako, nagjajakol, bet nyo yun? Try nyo rin yan. Yakang-yaka lang yan! Sobrang sarap pa!

Ay may pahirit pa ako. Bilang teenager, di mo maiiwasang magjakol sa banyo everytime na maliligo ka. Mabilis lang talaga labasan ang mga edad na nabanggit ko sa taas, sabi ko nga "konting haplos lang". Diba totoo naman? Ideny nyo pa nang mamatay na kayo bukas! Lols!

Penis Enlargement

Penis size is a sensitive issue for many men, including gay men; and penis enlargement is a big business. But, before you try the numerous products on the market promising to make your penis bigger, know the facts and beware of false techniques.

What is the average penis size?

The average penis is five to seven inches (127 to 178 mm) long when erect (measured from the tip of the penis head to the abdomen).

What are the common penis enlargement techniques?

* Vacuum Pumps
Vacuum pumps promise to increase the size of the penis by forcing blood into the penile shaft through suction. This method may sound reasonable and easy to perform, but it can result in loss of feeling, impotence and damaged blood vessels.

* Medication and Pills
Always beware of advertised miracle pills, especially ones that promise to make your penis bigger. Since there is no FDA-approved medication for penis enhancement, advertised penis enlargement pills are not regulated. As a result, there is no guarantee as to what ingredients or medications the supposed penis enhancement pill contains. These meds can pose serious health risks. Not to mention, the pill may be a placebo.

* Hanging Weights
Some believe penis enhancement can be achieved by hanging weights from the tip of the penis repeatedly over time. This is perhaps the oldest method of enhancement, but there is no scientific basis and any enlargement that was actually achieved happened over years. Hanging weights may increase the length of a flaccid penis over time, but they do not increase thickness. Weights can also result in stretch marks, lesions and decreased sensation in the penis.

* Surgery
There is a surgical procedure that involves cutting the suspensory ligament (which elongates your penis), but due to safety risks most doctors are not willing to perform this procedure. And, of course, no surgical procedure should ever be performed at home or without a qualified medical professional.

* Exercises
Like weight training programs, penis enhancement exercise methods promise that the penis can be made bigger through strength training and conditioning. However, this myth can also be busted. There are no muscles in the penis and therefore strength training and exercise cannot increase its size.


Why penis enlargement techniques do not work:

Many programs and products claim to have found the one true secret to a bigger penis. Potential clients should take caution, however, because there is no scientifically proven method of increasing your penis size without risk. Any by "scientific" I don't mean a team of infomercial professionals, but a regulated, licensed and controlled body of research, like the Federal Food and Drug Administration.

Don't sacrifice sensation or permanent damage for a false promise of size enhancement. By attempting to increase your penis size, you run the risk of losing sensation in your peripheral nerves (making it more difficult to ejaculate), impotence, scarring, lesions or other permanent damage. Few advertised penis enlargement products or processes are open about potential side affects or permanent damage.

Don't confuse swelling and irritation for size enhancement, either. Most techniques can cause irritation to the penis, which can result in temporary swelling- eventually leading to permanent damage.

How To Steal a Gay Kiss

TOUCH FIRST, KISS LATER
The first thing to keep in mind is--no lunging. Your movement into the first kiss should be a natural extension of a light, playful attitude towards touching that you have established from the start of the conversation, not some predatory lurch that comes out of the blue. So prepare the moment well in advance by getting him comfortable with being touched by you. We’re not talking about gross sexual groping, but instead a series of small gestures that lets him know you’re interested and not afraid of tactile contact. Examine his jewelry, feel the fabric of his shirt, flick some imaginary lint off his collar, grasp his forearm to make a point, lean in close to hear what he’s saying. Your friend should feel relaxed with your touch long before you’re ready to kiss him.



OBSERVE THE MOOD
No mutual interest, no kiss. So in your conversation, work on creating a fun atmosphere of shared attraction. Joke around. Flirt. Tease. Watch for indications of interest: you touch him, he touches you back; his eyes catch yours; he responds to your jokes and games with ones of his own; he doesn’t shy from sex talk or introduces his own double entendres. Ready to make your move?

TRANSITION TO A KISS ZONE
Talking and flirting can be done in a bar or club but kissing is far more intimate and demands privacy. Only newly-minted lovers kiss in public. So don’t put your new friend on the spot and try to kiss him when there are people around. Instead, be smooth and move your date to a "kiss zone" – a semi-private spot away from prying eyes where you can be alone together, but not a blatant sex location like your bedroom or hotel room. Made-to-order kiss zones might be: a dark corner, a quiet hallway, a bench or patio outside the club. To help overcome any discomfort your friend might be feeling, provide a plausible reason for the move: "Let’s sit over there where we can talk," "God it’s hot in here, let’s go outside," or (if he’s with his buddies) "Can I borrow your friend for a minute? I want to ask him something."

LET THE TENSION BUILD
Once in the kiss zone, continue developing attraction as before, but don’t be in a hurry. Instead, let the tension build. Take your friend’s hand and throw it away. Move close, then move back. Compliment, then tease. Try the "triangular gaze": look your friend in the eyes, then look down at his lips, then back to his eyes. This bit of body language signals that you’re strongly attracted and ready at any moment to kiss. Time to close the deal.

KISS CLOSE #1—HIS LIPS
The touching, the flirting, the quiet location--perhaps you’ve been playing a game with your lover, but your lover has been playing too. He knows what’s coming and, what’s more, wants it to come, though he may be shy. Help him along. After a triangular gaze, murmur something nice about his lips and brush the back of your fingers across them. If he accepts your gesture, he’s ready to be kissed. Draw him to you and kiss him lightly.

KISS CLOSE #2—HIS HAIR
A variation of the above: "You have beautiful hair." Reach over and rake your fingers gently through his hair, draw close and smell it, or even take a little taste. If he accepts and enjoys this intimate gesture, he’ll be receptive to your lips. Gaze into his eyes, pull him to you and kiss.

KISS CLOSE #3—JUST ASK
The famous pick-up artist Mystery has a third method a bit more playful and verbal. Once in the kiss zone, simply give your friend a significant glance and ask, "Do you want to kiss me?" If the answer is yes, you know what to do. If the answer is no, remain indifferent and say, "Oh. I didn’t say you could but you looked like you had something on your mind." If the answer indicates any uncertainty ("Maybe," "I’m not sure"), say provocatively "Let’s find out," take him in your arms and go for it.

FURTHER THOUGHTS
Don’t be too aggressive with your first kiss. Given all the build up, a gentle brush of the lips should be enough to ignite your lover’s passion. Go with the flow. Sit, wait, let things happen. The tension has been broken. You’re moving into new territory. Enjoy the moment.

Too Much Masturbation May Cause Eye Problems

Too much masturbation may cause eye problems. Well this is one good realization that I found out today. I do not know if there is an evidence confirming or denying this fact. To be honest folks I used to jerk off almost 5 times a day without even getting tired.

I am not boasting but that is my level of energy. A few years back I used to jack off more than 10 times a day. Just recently, however I felt that my eyes are getting blurry and so I decided to have them checked. They do game me some prescription but then I found one of the possible cause.

This morning I have a fairly good eyesight until I did masturbate. I started to see blurry again and the words are not being read correctly. That is when I concluded that perhaps too much masturbation over time may indeed cause eye problems.

So masturbate moderately....

Up, Up, and Away

Erotic Instructions:

Lie on your back with a pillow under your head, your legs in the air as straight and high as possible. While kneeling (his chest at your calves), your guy pushes your legs to one side slightly — not allowing them to flop all the way over — leans forward, and enters you. He can place his hands on the bed or floor on either side of your torso for support.

CARNAL CHALLENGE

Why You'll Love It:

Keeping your legs up high and close together creates a super-tight fit, which means goose-bump-inducing friction for you and your man. And since he’s entering you at a slight (about thirty-degree) angle, you both get a down-there sensation that’s very distinct from what you’re used to in the missionary or doggy position. You can stroke your own bliss button while your man pumps away, or just lie back, luxuriate in how oh-so-fabulous your body feels, and know that the view of you writhing in ecstasy is also making him howl.

The Face-to-Face Fandango

Erotic Instructions:

This pose gives a whole new meaning to the words "Dirty Dancing." Lie on the floor or another flat surface faceup, with your legs bent under your thighs and your arms raised straight back over your head. Have your guy lie on top of you face-to-face, his legs straight and his hands gripping either your shoulders or your sides. Once you've tweaked the pose so that it's comfortable for you both, he can penetrate you with wide, circular motions or deep, up-and-down thrusting — whichever best suits your saucy mood.

CARNAL CHALLENGE

Why You'll Love It:

Unlike other deep-access positions, this one allows for optimum eye contact, kissing, and touching. He can play with your breasts with his hands or tongue, and with your hands above your head, it's up to him to triple your trysting pleasure.

The Lusty Leg Lift

Erotic Instructions:

Face your partner, standing with your legs shoulder width apart. Take your left foot and turn it out to the side while keeping your right one facing forward. Have him widen his stance, with his legs about three feet apart, and then ask him to bend his knees ever-so-slightly. Wrap your arms around his neck and have him put his arms snugly around your lower back. Here’s where it gets a little tricky: Pull your right leg up and place your right foot on his left shoulder, keeping your right knee bent. As he slowly enters you, ease into the vertical split by sliding your calf as far up his left shoulder as you comfortably can.

CARNAL CHALLENGE

Why You'll Love It:

There’s a reason guys are drawn to a kick line of cheerleaders: Flexibility is h-o-t. Most men are so stiff, they think a knee bend is an Olympic feat—so pull this one on him and he’ll worship you as a sex goddess who knows how to stretch sexual boundaries.

Bed Spread

Erotic Instructions:

Bend over the side of the bed so your stomach and breasts are against the mattress and your feet are on the floor, legs spread comfortably. As your guy penetrates you from behind, he lifts your legs from just above the knees, holds them apart, and thrusts.

CARNAL CHALLENGE

Why You'll Love It:

With your body angled slightly downward and your legs apart, he gets deep penetration. And since your gams are in his grip, he can thrust away with total abandon. Plus, he can easily view your sexy rear and watch himself move in and out of you — an up close and personal pose guys pine for. So what’s in it for you? You feel weightless with your legs lifted off the floor, as if you’re floating, while your guy does all the work. And his penis is perfectly angled for your pleasure.

The Stand and Deliver

Erotic Instructions:

You lean against a wall with your legs slightly spread, facing your guy. He grabs onto the backs of your thighs and holds them against his hips, lifting you up and pushing your back into the wall for leverage, then thrusts away.

CARNAL CHALLENGE

Why You'll Love It:

Like traditional missionary sex, this position satisfies your up-close-and-personal cravings for face-to-face intimacy. But stand-up sex also scratches that I-need-you-now itch that plagues passionate partners, says Joan Elizabeth Lloyd, author of 52 Saturday Nights (Warner Books, 2000). "This position is primal and versatile — perfect for a quickie." Plus, by squeezing your thighs together, you'll narrow your vaginal canal, which in turn enhances the friction he feels.

How to Climax Together

When you're in a relationship, there's nothing more intense than superconnected sex. And, with that goal in mind, the ultimate endeavor is a dual orgasm. "Climaxing within seconds of each other is one of the most gratifying sexual encounters you can have," says Ian Kerner, PhD, author of He Comes Next. "Every sensation is amplified since you're experiencing it in tandem."

But it can be tricky to pull off, so we asked readers what their roadblocks are to peaking together. If you want to set the stage for this erotic experience, read on. We reveal what's standing in your way and how to overcome it.

ROADBLOCK 1: You Only Climax Via Oral/Manual Pleasure
Fifty-eight percent of Cosmo readers who experience roadblocks usually orgasm, but not during intercourse.

To orgasm à deux, you need to learn to climax when you have intercourse. "It may be easier to peak during oral and manual because he's focused on your clitoris," explains Ava Cadell, PhD, author of The Pocket Idiot's Guide to Oral Sex. "In many positions, you won't achieve clitoral stimulation unless you consciously create contact." Plus, as he's touching you, you can guide him or take matters into your own hands for C-spot stimulation.

To orgasm through intercourse, recreate the sensations you feel during oral and manual action. Use extra lube to imitate the warmth and wetness of his mouth. Also, start slowly. "Let him enter you only halfway in the beginning, simulating the shallow penetration from his mouth or hands," suggests Kerner.

As he goes deeper, touch yourself so you're stimulated on the inside and outside. With a little practice, climaxing during intercourse will come naturally. When you're primed for peaking in tandem, read the next section.


ROADBLOCK 2: Your Timing Is Off
Forty-two percent of Cosmo readers who experience roadblocks usually orgasm during intercourse, but not at the same time as their guy.

Since men tend to climax faster than women do (most women need 10 to 20 minutes to peak via intercourse; most men need two), get a head start. Have him tantalize you manually or orally for 10 minutes so you're close to the edge.

Once you're ready for intercourse, opt for woman-on-top to control the pace. "Rub your clitoris in circles to get more blood flowing there," says Cadell. If he's nearing the O zone too quickly, "pull out so only the tip of his penis is in you, and make shallow movements," says Kerner. This downshifts his arousal while giving you intense clitoral stimulation.

If he's just moments away, stop having sex, and gently squeeze the head of his member for five seconds. Says Kerner, "Squeezing halts the blood flow to his penis, abating arousal."

What if he still blasts off before you? Don't give up or get discouraged if the timing's off the first or even fifth time. The more often you try climaxing together, the easier it will become.